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Genesis 33:1-17 · John 21:1-19 (NRSVue)

Sermon for October 11, 2026

Jacob has not seen his brother in twenty years, and the last thing he heard was that Esau planned to kill him. Esau had his reasons. Jacob took the birthright and then lied to their blind, dying father to take the blessing. Then he ran.

Now he is coming home, and word arrives that Esau is riding out to meet him with four hundred men. So Jacob does what Jacob has always done: he works the angle. He sends more than 550 animals ahead in waves, goats and sheep and camels and cattle, each herd with a servant coached to say, “A gift from your servant Jacob.” He is doing math. How much does it cost to make twenty years go away?

We know this kind of math. It is one of the oldest money stories there is: whatever is broken, enough money can fix it. Send the gift. Pick up the check. Write a bigger one this year and feel square with God.

Then Jacob walks out in front of his family, bowing to the ground seven times, braced for the worst. And Genesis says, “Esau ran to meet him and embraced him and fell on his neck and kissed him, and they wept.”

Esau ran. The one who was robbed does the running.

Then he looks at all that livestock and asks what it was for. Jacob tells the truth: to find favor with you. And Esau says, “I have enough, my brother; keep what you have for yourself.”

We usually read this as Jacob’s story, and it is. But Jacob is no hero in this chapter. The man who heals this family is the one who was cheated. Esau has spent twenty years becoming someone who can say “I have enough,”. That way of thinking does what 550 animals could not. A man who has enough can’t be bought. He is also free to forgive, because he no longer needs to collect.

Restoration here cannot be purchased. It is given, and by the person with every right to withhold it.

Jacob then insists that Esau keep the gift anyway. Our translation has him say, “Please accept my gift.” The Hebrew word is berakah, which means blessing. It is the same word used for what Jacob stole from their father’s bedside. Jacob is saying: take my blessing. He is handing back, as well as he can, the thing he took.

The animals are the same animals. An hour ago they were a bribe. Now they are a blessing, because Jacob has already been received. He says so: “To see your face is like seeing the face of God, since you have received me with such favor.” The money comes after the grace, and it means something different there.

That is the difference between a payment and an offering. A payment tries to settle the account. An offering comes from someone who found out the account was already settled.

I wish the story ended there, but it goes on. Esau says, travel with me. Jacob says, go on ahead, I will catch up with you in Seir. Then he goes in the opposite direction and goes to Succoth, builds himself a house, and stays. He was embraced an hour ago and he is already hedging. The night before, God gave him a new name, and he is still acting like the old one.

So restoration is real… and it is unfinished. Jacob does not “get fixed” in a single afternoon. God keeps the promise anyway. If you have come back to God more than once about the same thing, you are in the right story. You’re in good company. You are welcome here.

Now go to the shore of the Sea of Galilee.

Peter has his own history. On the night Jesus was arrested, Peter stood in a courtyard warming his hands and said three times that he did not know the man. Jesus has since been raised, and Peter has seen him. But nothing has been said about that night, and Peter does not know what Jesus thinks about him now.

So Peter says, “I am going fishing.” It is the job he had before any of this started. When life gets difficult, we often go back to what we know. The others go with him. These are professionals, on their own lake. They work all night and… catch nothing.

At daybreak a man on the beach calls out (They don’t know it’s Jesus yet) and tells them to cast the net on the right side of the boat. They do, and they cannot haul it in for the weight. One hundred fifty-three large fish.

It is tempting to stop here, especially in stewardship season. Trust Jesus and the nets fill up. But the catch is not where the gospel story is taking us. When they reach the shore, Jesus already has fish on the fire, and bread. He did not need their catch. Breakfast was already made.

John gives one detail about that fire. It is a charcoal fire. The Greek word is anthrakia, and it shows up exactly twice in the New Testament: here, and in the courtyard where Peter stood warming his hands while he denied Jesus (in John 18). John wants us to smell that smoke and remember.

Jesus brings Peter back to the scene. Same fire, and the same number of questions as denials. “Simon son of John, do you love me?” He asks three times, and the third time it hurts. John says so. Restoration that never touches the wound hasn’t restored much.

But look at what Jesus leaves out. He asks for no explanation and sets no probation. He takes no fish as payment. Like Esau, he is the wronged one, and he is the one who made the first move. He asks about love, and each time Peter answers, Jesus gives him work. “Feed my lambs.” “Tend my sheep.” “Feed my sheep.”

For Peter, forgiveness arrives as responsibility. Jesus restores him by trusting him with what Jesus loves most. Earlier in this Gospel, Jesus called himself the good shepherd who lays down his life for the sheep. Now he hands that work to the man who failed him, and tells him it will cost him his life too. Then he says what he said at the very beginning: “Follow me.”

Put the two reunions side by side.

In both, someone comes carrying what he did. In both, the wronged party gets there first, with an embrace or with breakfast. In both, the old way of settling things is refused. Esau turns down the livestock, and Jesus has no use for the fish.

And in both, the restored man ends up giving. Jacob gives his blessing back. Peter gives the rest of his life. Neither of them is paying. They give because they have been received.

This is where four weeks have been heading. We remembered the stories about money we were handed. We released what had a grip on us. We reimagined what an economy looks like when God designs it. Restoring is the part where it touches the ground.

So here is a word about the pledge card you will fill out this year. It will not buy you anything. It cannot make God love you more or make up for a bad year, and it does not reserve you a better parking spot or seat in the sanctuary. That account is closed, and you did not close it. Jesus has already made breakfast.

That leaves the question he asked Peter. Do you love me? Then feed my sheep.

The sheep have names. They are the kids in our classrooms on Sunday mornings and the family in our neighborhood that comes up short at the end of the month. They are the people we will bury this year, and the people sitting beside them. Feeding them takes hands and hours, and it takes money. What you give becomes food for somebody else. That is how a restored person handles money. They quit using it to feel safe or to feel forgiven, and they feed people with it.

Most of us will do this the way Jacob did, with a new name and old habits, and a detour toward Succoth now and then. God kept faith with Jacob anyway, and he kept faith with Peter. He will keep faith with you.

Esau said it first: “I have enough.” People who can say that have something to give.

Follow him. Feed his sheep.

Amen.

Sermon by: Rev. Dave Wasson